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When You’re Blaming Yourself

Not everything that happened to you was your fault. Not every feeling needs a verdict.

Reality Check

Self-blame can feel like control, but it usually keeps you stuck.

Redirect

Trade blame for honest reflection.

Reflection

What part of this was actually mine to own — and what wasn’t?

Affirmation

I can be honest with myself without being cruel to myself.

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